Traveling with two kids under six can feel like preparing for a mission. Between packing for unpredictable toddler needs, ensuring both children stay entertained and happy, and finding the right destinations that suit young families, the process might seem daunting. But don’t let that stop you from taking trips with your little ones! Traveling with children, while challenging at times, can also be incredibly rewarding. Whether you’re going on a road trip or flying across the country, there are ways to make it easier for both you and your kids.
As a mom of two boys aged 5 and 3, I’ve learned a few things that have saved my sanity during trips. Here are some of the best tips and tricks that I’ve gathered to make your journey with kids smoother, more fun, and (mostly) stress-free.
- Start with the Right Mindset
Before diving into the nitty-gritty, the first tip I’d give any parent is to adjust your expectations. Traveling with kids is not the same as traveling without them. You’ll need to go at their pace, allow for some unpredictability, and expect the unexpected. Things might not go perfectly, but that’s okay. Be ready to take things as they come, and don’t be afraid to embrace a little bit of chaos. With that mindset, you’re already on the right track.
- Packing Like a Pro
Packing for kids can be overwhelming because it feels like you need to bring the entire house with you. Here are a few strategies that can help simplify things:
– The Essentials Only Rule: You don’t need to pack a month’s worth of clothing or toys. Stick to the essentials and remind yourself that you can always buy extra diapers or snacks if you need to. Pack versatile clothing that can be mixed and matched and opt for travel-sized toiletries. For your boys, focus on packing a set of clothes per day plus a couple of extras in case of spills or accidents.
– Pack Entertainment in the Form of Quiet Toys: pack items like coloring books, crayons, or small puzzles that don’t take up much space but can keep them entertained. I’ve found that new (or rarely used) toys or activity books tend to keep them engaged for longer because of the novelty.
– Organized Bags: Use packing cubes or clear zip-lock bags to organize clothing and essentials by category. This makes it easier to find things without rummaging through the entire suitcase. Each child could have their own cube or bag for clothes, toys, and toiletries.
– Carry-On Survival Kit: For flights or long car rides, have a small carry-on bag with essentials like snacks, wet wipes, a change of clothes for both kids, and small toys or tablets to keep them entertained. Make sure the snacks are easy to eat and non-messy (think crackers, fruit pouches, or string cheese).
- Snacks Are Your Best Friend
When it comes to traveling with kids, snacks are not just food—they are mood stabilizers. Bring a variety of snacks that your kids love and introduce new ones to keep things interesting. You can never have too many snacks. Healthy options like sliced fruits, veggies, and cheese are great, but don’t forget some fun treats that might surprise them. Sometimes, a small pack of gummy bears can be a lifesaver!
On flights, I pack a snack for every hour we’re traveling. For road trips, I try to make stops at places where we can grab something different from time to time, which makes the journey more enjoyable for the kids and gives them something to look forward to.
- Entertainment and Screen Time Balance
When traveling, it’s important to strike a balance between screen time and other forms of entertainment. While we try to limit screen time at home, traveling can be an exception, especially for long journeys. Load up your tablet or phone with kid-friendly games, educational apps, and their favorite movies or shows. For my boys, I make sure to download episodes of their favorite shows or some simple interactive games that don’t need Wi-Fi.
That said, variety is key. Alternate screen time with other activities like coloring books, stickers, or small travel games. Audiobooks and kid-friendly podcasts can also be a great way to keep them entertained without needing to look at a screen.
- Plan Breaks and Activities
Whether you’re on a road trip or sightseeing in a new city, kids need regular breaks. If you’re driving, plan stops at parks or rest areas where they can run around and burn off energy. If you’re flying, walk around the terminal before boarding so they can stretch their legs. Keeping them moving helps prevent boredom and restlessness.
If you’re visiting a new city or destination, plan your days around activities your kids will enjoy. Parks, zoos, aquariums, and hands-on museums are great places to keep them engaged. Many cities also offer children’s centers or playgrounds that can be a great way to let your little ones socialize and have some fun.
I’ve found that destinations that cater to children, like kid-friendly hotels or vacation rentals, can make a huge difference. Some hotels even offer playrooms, pools with kid areas, or activities like arts and crafts to keep kids entertained.
- Embrace Early Starts and Downtime
One of the realities of traveling with young kids is that your schedule revolves around their needs. Most young children are early risers, so take advantage of this by starting your day early when tourist spots are less crowded. This also gives you the flexibility to take a long lunch break or go back to the hotel for naps when needed.
Don’t pack your itinerary too tightly. While it’s tempting to try to see and do everything, kids need downtime. Schedule in some rest periods where you can relax, whether that’s taking a break at the hotel or finding a quiet spot to sit for a bit. For my boys, I like to bring along their favorite blankets or a small stuffed animal so they can feel more comfortable when it’s time to rest.
- Preparing for Flights: Ears and Energy
For kids under six, flights can be hard, especially with the changes in air pressure during takeoff and landing. Pack gum, lollipops, or a sippy cup to help ease ear pressure for your little ones. I’ve learned that it’s helpful to give them something to chew or suck on to minimize ear discomfort.
Make sure to let your kids burn off some energy before the flight. Some airports have play areas where they can run around and tire themselves out before sitting on a plane for hours.
- Navigating Car Rides
Car rides can be either a dream or a nightmare depending on your preparation. Here’s how you can survive long road trips with little ones:
– Nap Timing: Try to schedule your driving time around naps. Leaving early in the morning or after lunch when your kids are naturally sleepy can lead to peaceful driving hours.
– Create a Fun Playlist: Music is a great way to keep kids entertained. Create a playlist of their favorite songs or fun family-friendly tunes that everyone can enjoy. Sometimes, singing along can be just what you need to keep them in good spirits.
– Plan Fun Stops: If your road trip allows for it, plan some exciting stops along the way, such as a quirky roadside attraction or a local playground. This can break up the monotony of a long drive and give your kids something to look forward to.
- Stay Flexible
No matter how well you plan, things can go sideways. Delays happen, tantrums occur, and unexpected changes are part of the deal when traveling with kids. The best thing you can do is remain flexible and go with the flow. If something doesn’t go according to plan, take a deep breath, adjust, and move forward. Remember that traveling is an adventure, and sometimes the most unexpected moments become the best memories.
- Engage Kids in the Travel Process
Involving your kids in the planning and travel process can make them feel more excited and cooperative. Let them help pack their bags or choose one or two activities they’d like to do at your destination. For example, my 5-year-old loves picking out his favorite toy or coloring book to bring on the trip. Giving them small responsibilities helps them feel more engaged and less likely to get restless.
During the trip, talk to your kids about where you’re going and what they’ll see. This can turn the journey into an educational experience, sparking their curiosity and keeping them engaged.
- Kid-Friendly Accommodations
When booking hotels or rentals, look for family-friendly accommodations. Many hotels offer amenities like cribs, high chairs, or even childproofed rooms. Some vacation rentals are particularly geared toward families, providing toys, games, and kid-sized furniture. If you’re staying in a rental, having access to a kitchen is a game-changer because it allows you to prepare meals and snacks your kids are familiar with.
Also, try to stay in places near parks or attractions that your kids will enjoy. A hotel with a pool can be a lifesaver for getting out that extra energy before bedtime!
Conclusion: Enjoy the Journey
Traveling with two kids under six may have its challenges, but with a bit of planning and a positive attitude, it can be an incredibly rewarding experience. You’ll create memories that will last a lifetime, and you’ll expose your little ones to new cultures, people, and places. So, take a deep breath, pack those snacks, and get ready for an adventure!
Happy travels!
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