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Finding your Authentic self

What does it mean to be “Authentic self”

Being Authentic self-means representing your time, nature or beliefs and pursuing the life you want to live – basically being your true self.

If you observe, sad to say, not very many of us feel great being our real self since we don’t consider ourselves good enough, mostly due to the impact and influence of social platforms.

We don’t understand that our legitimacy is that certain something (more than anything) that makes us one of a kind.

If you visit any place on the planet, it won’t take time before you realize and understand what makes that place stand out. Possibly its the sustenance, the way of life, some notable milestone, or something different, however, there is continually something that catches our faculties and leaves an impression.

I think it’s amazing that the scenes, places or countries you visit so often leave an impact on you in a way that the general population like family, friends, associates etc. you connect with every day typically don’t.

Just pause and think for yourself what number of them have really left an impact on you. For the majority of us, the response is, not very many.

This made me think. What is it about the world’s urban communities that makes them outstand and about the general population we socialize with that makes them mix in?

I’ve thought about it for some time and I think I understand the distinction. Urban areas endeavor not to resemble any other place, each world big city encapsulates its very own character and uniqueness. While we as individuals don’t ordinarily do the same but often adjust to people around us.

A large portion of us like being consistent with ourselves, yet only in a moment — almost like a reflex — you essentially get accustomed to fitting in with what every other person is doing. Making you simply like every other person which leaves nothing imperative about you. Creating emotional, physical and intellectual barriers, preventing others from seeing your true, authentic self.

This is the fact that your personality shifts from being your true self to being what every other person needs you to be, scenarios like of you seeking validation, career, low esteem, settling in, peer pressure, armor of perfectionism, setting bars so high that you end up missing the mark pretty much every time etc.  making you lose the profound feeling of your identity and what you bring to the table.

When you stop going beyond your personal boundaries and interfacing more effortlessly, your life becomes more significant, more effective and less loaded. Just like a thing, you want to be good at it must be honed and polished. Every time you don’t feel consistent with yourself try and utilize the knowledge to proceed onward by altering your conduct and words. In doing so, you are receptive and individuals will seek your advice.

To walk this out, there are regions where I have developed realness in my very own life: knowing my esteem, shaping legitimate connections, and settling on true choices. Building up every one of these regions has helped me to know my identity and what I bring on the table.

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Until next time, stay healthy.

 

Xoxo

Cecil.

 

XOXO
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